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How to Handle the Effects of Abandonment by Abandonment


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If you have been wondering what abandonment looks like in action, here is a brief synopsis of the situations that can cause it. When love is shared between a parent and child, the parent with love and concern for his or her child feels abandoned by that child and so goes out of her way to fulfill the needs of that abandoned child. The parent who has abandoned that child feels guilty and does not feel like the child’s real mom and dad, so she goes out of her way to “set up” the child.

An Overview

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This parental responsibility to set up children is a double-edged sword, though. It may make the child feel less lonely and neglected, but on the other hand, if it becomes a habitual behavior, the child may become depressed and thus, emotionally distant from the parent. The child’s emotional needs will be met when there are people who are loving and available to attend to those needs, such as siblings, other parents, and peers.

There are many ways to describe abandonment, but generally it involves two people who are married or involved in a serious romantic relationship. The parents, for example, may break up and refuse to reunite after breaking up. Or the parents may separate and then live separately for years. The child is left with a new set of parents, usually one who is very young and has very little knowledge of the world outside the marriage. The child has no one to turn to and may not be able to form relationships with other children her own age.

Children who experience this type of abandonment may start to show signs of emotional distress at an early age. They may show defiant behavior, have problems with separation anxiety, and spend a lot of time with only one parent. They may resort to drug and alcohol abuse. They can also exhibit personality disorders such as extreme anger, sadistic behaviors, and being moody. And they can suffer from self-injurious or self-destructive behavior, such as cutting themselves. They may have mental health issues as well.

What Parents Should Do

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This doesn’t mean that parents should never let the child back into their home, but it does mean that they need to make sure they know how to get back on the right track with their child. It is important to remember that children often learn better through a stable family structure. If a couple is having difficulty separating from each other, the child’s natural instinct may be to try to be like them. If this happens more than once, it may mean the child has a difficult attachment to the parents.

It’s important for parents to keep in mind that children who grow up without a strong parent, a protective set of parents, and an understanding system may become lovable, but they will likely lack the self-confidence and self-esteem that come from having positive experiences. These experiences help shape their mental health, self-image, and social relationships. They can help them develop coping skills that will help them avoid serious emotional and behavioral challenges later in life. They can also help them develop healthy relationships with their peers. All of these things are extremely important in developing healthy children.

Taking Care Of Your Child

There are many possible causes for abandonment by abandonment. The most common would likely be the traumatic event. Other potential causes include neglect, domestic violence, sexual abuse, and similar situations. However, the most important thing to remember is that each child reacts differently to the abandonment of his parents.

If your child has experienced abandonment by abandonment, the best thing you can do is provide a safe and secure environment for him or her. You can do this by following all of the guidelines set forth above. If you find that your child still has issues with being abandoned, you can work with a professional to help your child overcome these issues. Remember, giving a child structure and consistency in his life will help prepare them for later stages of life. If you don’t have all three of these things in place, you may want to consider working with a professional to help your child adjust to an adult life, as well as handling the abandonment by abandonment issue.

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